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So why do guys work to learn how to be a "pickup artist" and learn all these seduction techniques, when what they really want is just to get a girlfriend?
I believe it's because men have a basic need, and it's illogical, but it is hard-wired in us. We want to have the thrill of the victory, overcoming the challenge, and then having our egos boosted with the validation of sexual POWER.
It's important to remember that praying isn't a sure ticket to getting what you want.
Increasing your faith and finding happiness in His guidance will eventually bring about your heart's desires.
Men want women who accept themselves, know their worth and embrace their flaws with grace and kindness.
When you are not afraid to be imperfect and are willing to expose all of your glorious flaws to a man, you will end up with a much better relationship.
If you think that being irresistible to men is acting like "Perfect Patty" (laughing all the time, hiding all your negative feelings, having a perfect body, cooking perfect meals and being "Suzy Homemaker" in your free time), you are asking your man to fall in love with an illusion and not with the real you.
However, don't try to fool him either, making him think you are a saint and a trophy wife.
Being an attractive woman isn't about hiding your ugly feelings and competing for "best perma-smile!
I was standing up there in front of a crowd of eager guys presenting a seminar on how to attract women and how to get a girlfriend, and a strange urge overtook me...
I wanted to ask them a question that just didn't seem "politically correct" to ask a bunch of aspiring "pickup artists." I kept thinking to myself: Should I...?